I would like to talk about attachment theory briefly.
“Attachment theory is a psychological, evolutionary, and ethological theory concerning relationships between humans. The most important tenet of attachment theory is that a young child needs to develop a relationship with at least one primary caregiver for social and emotional development to occur normally. The theory was formulated by psychiatrist and psychoanalyst John Bowlby.” (source: Wikipedia)
Some basic notions are:
Imprinting: it is a sudden, biologically primed behavior; it is innate (e.g., ducks)
Attachment: it is a strong emotional bond between caregiver and infant; it is not innate, it is learned
Secure: critical element for a secure environment is not simply food, it is contact comfort and attuned caregiver.
Attachment: it is a strong emotional bond between caregiver and infant; it is not innate, it is learned
Secure: critical element for a secure environment is not simply food, it is contact comfort and attuned caregiver.
The developmental process for the attachment is as follows:
*indiscriminate attachment (0 – 3 months) – care-eliciting behavior directed toward any human
*discriminate attachment (3 – 7 months) – directed toward familiar caregivers
*specific attachment (begins 7 months) – directed toward most familiar primary caregiver (PCG)
*stranger anxiety (6 – 18 months) – distressed in contact with unfamiliar people
*separation anxiety (8 months – 2, 3 yrs) – stressed when separated from primary caregiver (PCG)
*discriminate attachment (3 – 7 months) – directed toward familiar caregivers
*specific attachment (begins 7 months) – directed toward most familiar primary caregiver (PCG)
*stranger anxiety (6 – 18 months) – distressed in contact with unfamiliar people
*separation anxiety (8 months – 2, 3 yrs) – stressed when separated from primary caregiver (PCG)
While assessing the types of attachment, which is measured by “strange situation”, mother (PCG) and the child are together in an unfamiliar, novel room with toys. At one point in time, a stranger enters, then after a while the mother leaves and then the mother returns. What is observed here is what the child does in each change. There are four possibilities of behavior:
1) If the child is secure, he explores, is curious about situation and stranger; feels distress when mother leaves; recovers and returns to play; then exhibits joy when mother(PCG) returns.
(Securely attached child has a secure attachment with his father, he is resilient, competent and has high self-esteem. He will have good social adjustment with peers, advanced cognitive development such as school success, curiosity and self-reliance. He will become a healthy adult; he will be able to love and have sexual relationships.)
2) If the child is anxious-resistant, he is fearful, clings to mother, does not explore; distressed when mother leaves, but is not soothed when she returns; resists her attention.
3) If the child is anxious-avoidant, the child has minimal interaction with mother, stranger and toys; he is not distressed when mother leaves; does not seek contact or comfort when she returns.
4) If the child is disorganized-disoriented, he engages in contradictory behaviors toward mother, stranger, toys; he does not fully engage with anyone or anything; he engages in stereotyped rocking; disoriented, dazed when mother leaves; helpless effort to elicit soothing (indicator of abused child).
There are some mental representations of attachment;
- Internal working models of “care” and “care-givers” are formed,
- The attachment in childhood forms basis of sense of self and expectations for close relations with others in the future.
- If the caregiver is consistent, reliable, attuned and soothing, then the infant will say “I’m worthy, lovable, loved, competent; care-givers are loving”
- If the caregiver is inconsistent, withholding and abusive, then the infant will say “I’m unworthy, unlovable, defective, unloved; care-givers are unloving”
As we can see, the way primary caregiver treats the child is very important. It is obvious that it shapes one's adult personality; therefore, it is a very important issue. It should not be forgotten that the biology has not changed through centuries; infants were helpless then when they are born, and they are still. The caregiver should absolutely respond to him rather than ignoring, neglecting or refusing him. However the person beside treats him, he becomes attached to that person in some way but of course the nature of the attachment changes. There may of course be some differences in attachment quality based on patterning of care and the organization of attachment behavior, but if there is no attachment, it is a serious problem. There must also be love, acceptance and trust in the relationship with the infant.
sources: Lecture notes of "Introduction to Psychology"
The book "The Science of Mind and Behavior", Passer & Smith, 3rd edition,
The book "The Science of Mind and Behavior", Passer & Smith, 3rd edition,
Workshop with Alan Sroufe (23rd and 24th of October)